A new series of articles, produced by the square magazine, offering a guide to practical life lessons, taught through Freemasonry for young professionals, setting out in life after completing full time education.
Lesson 1 – Communicate Effectively and Assertively
Why it is important to communicate effectively and assertively ?
Effective communication helps to build trust and understanding in a relationship, whether it be between co-workers, friends, or family members. This can lead to stronger, more positive relationships and a more harmonious environment.
Assertive communication allows individuals to express their thoughts, feelings, and needs in a direct and healthy way. This can help to prevent conflicts and misunderstandings, and can also help individuals to set boundaries and stand up for themselves.
Effective communication skills are important in the workplace, as they can help individuals to collaborate and work together more efficiently. This can lead to better outcomes, increased productivity, and improved job satisfaction.
How to communicate effectively and assertively.
Communicating effectively and assertively involves several key steps.
Identify your own needs and feelings. Before you can communicate effectively and assertively, you need to be clear about what you want and how you feel about a situation. Take some time to think about your own needs and emotions before starting a conversation.
Communicate directly and honestly. When communicating assertively, it’s important to be direct and honest about your needs and feelings. Avoid using passive or aggressive language, and instead use clear, direct statements that express your thoughts and feelings without attacking or blaming the other person
Listen actively and attentively. To communicate effectively, you need to be a good listener. Pay attention to the other person’s words, body language, and tone of voice, and try to understand their perspective. This will help you respond in a way that takes their needs and feelings into account.
Be open to feedback and compromise. When communicating assertively, it’s important to be open to feedback and willing to compromise. This means being willing to listen to the other person’s perspective and consider their needs and feelings, even if they differ from your own.
Use body language and tone of voice to reinforce your message. Your body language and tone of voice can be powerful tools when communicating effectively and assertively. Use confident, open body language, and a clear, calm tone of voice to reinforce your message and show that you are confident in what you are saying.
By following these steps, you can communicate effectively and assertively, ensuring that your own needs and feelings are heard and respected, while also taking the other person’s perspective into account. This can help foster more productive and positive interactions and relationships.
Top tips
1. Listen actively and attentively to the other person. This involves giving them your full attention and not interrupting or judging them.
2. Use clear, concise, and specific language to convey your message. Avoid using vague or overly emotional language that can be misinterpreted.
3. Be aware of your body language and tone of voice. These can convey just as much information as the words you use.
4. Be open and honest in your communication. This means being willing to share your thoughts and feelings, even if they may be difficult to express.
5. Avoid making assumptions about the other person’s thoughts or intentions. Instead, ask questions to clarify and confirm your understanding.
6. Be respectful and considerate of the other person’s perspective. This means acknowledging their feelings and experiences, even if you don’t agree with them.
7. Take responsibility for your own actions and words. Avoid blaming or attacking the other person, and focus on finding a solution to the problem at hand.
8. Be assertive, but not aggressive. This means standing up for yourself and your beliefs, but not imposing them on others or using force to get your way.
9. Use empathy to understand the other person’s perspective. This involves putting yourself in their shoes and trying to see things from their point of view.
10 Practice effective communication skills regularly. This involves continuously learning and improving your communication skills, and being open to feedback and constructive criticism.
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Learning and Development
A series of 10 learning and development articles, offering a guide to practical life lessons taught through Freemasonry for young adults setting out in life after full time education.
Overall, the lessons taught by Freemasonry are designed to help young adults develop the character, skills, and knowledge needed to succeed in life. By following the principles of brotherhood, charity, and self-improvement, young open minded individuals can build a strong foundation for a fulfilling and meaningful life.
The topics covered in the series are:
Lesson 1. How to communicate effectively and assertively.
Lesson 2. How to manage your finances and budget your money.
Lesson 3. How to take care of your physical and mental health.
Lesson 4. How to build and maintain healthy relationships.
Lesson 5. How to handle difficult emotions like anger, sadness, and fear.
Lesson 6. How to set and achieve goals for your personal and professional life.
Lesson 7. How to be open-minded and embrace diversity and inclusion.
Lesson 8. How to be a responsible and respectful member of your community.
Lesson 9. How to be a good partner and parent, if and when you decide to have a family.
Lesson 10. How to be adaptable and resilient in the face of challenges and change.
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 Practical Life Lessons taught through Freemasonry - P1 A series of articles offering a guide to practical life lessons taught through Freemasonry for young adults setting out in life after full time education - Lesson 1; How to communicate effectively and assertively ? |
 Practical Life Lessons Taught Through Freemasonry - P2 A series of articles offering a guide to practical life lessons taught through Freemasonry for young adults setting out in life after full time education - Lesson 2: How to manage your finances and budget your money? |
 Practical Life Lessons Taught Through Freemasonry - P3 A series of articles offering a guide to practical life lessons taught through Freemasonry for young adults setting out in life after full time education - Lesson 3: How to take care of your physical and mental health |
 Practical Life Lessons taught through Freemasonry - P4 A series of articles offering a guide to practical life lessons taught through Freemasonry for young adults setting out in life after full time education - Lesson 4: How to build and maintain healthy relationships |
 Practical Life Lessons taught through Freemasonry - P5 A series of articles offering a guide to practical life lessons taught through Freemasonry for young adults setting out in life after full time education - Lesson 5: How to handle difficult emotions like anger, sadness, and fear |
 Practical Life Lessons taught through Freemasonry - P6 A series of articles offering a guide to practical life lessons taught through Freemasonry for young adults setting out in life after full time education - Lesson 6: How to set and achieve goals for your personal and professional life |
 Practical Life Lessons taught through Freemasonry - P7 A series of articles offering a guide to practical life lessons taught through Freemasonry for young adults setting out in life after full time education - Lesson 7: How to be open-minded and embrace diversity and inclusion for your personal and professional life |
 Practical Life Lessons taught through Freemasonry - P8 A series of articles offering a guide to practical life lessons taught through Freemasonry for young adults setting out in life after full time education - Lesson 8: How to emerge as a responsible and respectful member of your community inyour personal and professional life |
 Practical Life Lessons taught through Freemasonry - P9 A series of articles offering a guide to practical life lessons taught through Freemasonry for young adults setting out in life after full time education - Lesson 9: How to be a good partner and parent, if and when you decide to have a family. |
 Practical Life Lessons taught through Freemasonry - P10 A series of articles offering a guide to practical life lessons taught through Freemasonry for young adults setting out in life after full time education - Lesson 10. How to be adaptable and resilient in the face of challenges and change. |
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